Let us define forgiveness between human beings. To forgive does not mean that you will trust the person who wronged you. To forgive does not mean that you will love or even like the person. To forgive is to accept the fact that God loves the person who wronged you.

Jesus said that in His Father’s house there are many mansions. Jesus went ahead to prepare our heavenly homes. Picture the day when you will be in the heavenly home that Jesus is preparing for you.

Now think about the person who wronged you. Do you THINK, not feel, that it is OK with you if God gives the person who wronged you the same kind of heavenly home that God will give you?

Think about that and decide intellectually, in your head, whether it is OK for God to give the person who wronged you the same kind of heavenly home that God will give you. If you THINK, not feel that it is OK, then intellectually, you have forgiven the person who wronged you.